The Holidays Without Him

Remember Him Through the Holidays

Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas and Kwanzaa can bring back every memory at once, and his seat at the table is hard to miss. Remembering My Dad is a place to honor him through the season, with people who know exactly what this time of year feels like.

Four holiday moments of remembrance: a Black woman lighting a candle beside her late father's framed photo, a Latino man cooking from his dad's handwritten recipe card, adult siblings toasting an empty chair at Thanksgiving, and an Asian woman in her father's cardigan hanging an ornament

Three Words for Him

Describe Him in Three Words

Steady. Funny. Faithful. Every father had his own three words. Share yours and they'll join the others here, a wall of the men we love and miss.

We never ask for names or personal details. Just three words that capture who he was.

  • Joyful · Humble · Dependable
  • Warm · Honest · Protective
  • Dancer · Storyteller · Hero
  • Quiet · Strong · Loving
  • Brave · Silly · Devoted
  • Hardworking · Proud · Kind
  • Gentle · Wise · Present
  • Funny · Loud · Generous
  • Steady · Patient · Faithful

What He Always Said

Every Dad Had a Line

Mine always told me, "That's okay, baby, Daddy will do it." Maybe yours had a saying he repeated every time you walked out the door, a piece of advice you still hear in his voice, or a joke he told so often the whole family could finish it for him. Share it here and keep his words going.

We never ask for names. Just the words he left you with.

“That's okay, baby, Daddy will do it.”
Encouragement
“Drive safe and call me when you get there.”
Goodbye
“Measure twice, cut once.”
Advice
“If you're going to do it, do it right.”
Advice
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Carolyn's dad

Why We're Here

My Dad Was the Life of Every Party

My father told the best jokes in any room he walked into, and when the music started, he was always the best dancer there. He was also my best buddy. He drove me to school every day, cooked dinner every night, and because I was the apple of his eye, he never once let me do a chore. Whenever I offered, he'd just say, "That's okay, baby, Daddy will do it."

I'd barely left my teens when I lost him, and it wasn't long after that I lost my mother too. I created Remembering My Dad for every son and daughter who misses the man who made them laugh, showed up every day and loved them out loud, so that none of us has to carry that loss alone.

Carolyn Mosby, Founder

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What He Left Us

His Recipes and His Lessons

Some dads were remembered at the grill, some at the stove and some in the garage with a toolbox open. Whether he made the best Sunday breakfast in the family or taught you how to change a tire, what he passed down is still with you. Share it here so it's never lost.

His Tribute in Three Steps

  1. 1

    Choose a Design

    Pick one made for the holiday you're facing, or a design for any day of the year.

  2. 2

    Add His Photo and Your Words

    Upload a favorite picture and write a few lines about who he was to you.

  3. 3

    Save It or Share It

    Download a keepsake, or send it to the family members who remember him with you.

His Song

The Song That Got Him on the Dance Floor

My dad was always the best dancer in the room, and I still can't hear certain songs without seeing him out there. Every father had a song, the one he played in the car, sang off key in the kitchen or danced to at every family party. Tell us his, and help us build a playlist of the men we love and miss.

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